The Ugly Truths of a Bachelor Party..

So i have two months and a week and im a married woman!
im so excited about this. there is just one thing that i am dreding more than anything in this world.
THE BACHLEOR PARTY!

I know ryan would never do anything to hurt me or hurt our relationship.
but some of his friends are a little on the wild side. Doby swears up and down they are goin to flordia to a strip club. I dont like this idea. and i told ryan that. Ryan personally dont want to go he even told me. Im just confused. i dont want to tell him no because i dont want his friends to make fun of him and i dont want to sound like his mother heaven forbid. Some facts i herd about these so called partys.
Fact number 1: Most of these types of parties allows sexual behaviors (towards your soon to be spouse) happen. Personally i dont want any girl dancing all of over him. thats my job only!

Fact number two: As i was reading a bachelor check off list for these partys there are things on this check list that disturbed me. Number 1 on the check of list states "let me see your *bleep* one last time im gettin ready to be a married me.
number 2 on the check off list states "lets hook up in the bathroom" this is the last time im goin to be single. Im sorry but if any of you soon to be men have to participate in this activity and go to a strip club you are pathetic and not mature enough to be getting married. THis just shows that your not ready to get married. he is not ready to be a christian husband. If a guy is a one woman man then he will fight to stay pure with his wife. thats how i look at things. i think its really sad that the guy that thinks he is planning his bachelor party is a christian. his soon to be fiance is a christian. but when he goes to work he brags to everyone he watchs porn and is goin to buy ryan lap dances at these strip clubs. Im sorry but if i find out he went to a strip club i will cry. i will be so upset thinking lord where did i go wrong?
i dont know if i should talk to doby personally or beg and pleed to ryan that i dont want him to go.
whats a girl to do?
thats easy
Put it in Gods Hands.
XoXo
Carrie